The Uncontrollable Experience
无法控制的经历
I'm at the market, trying to buy avocados. As usual, I press them with my fingers to feel their ripeness. Soft ones are good to eat within five days, super soft within two days, and hard ones take more than two weeks to ripen. But the owner of this fruit shop won't let me touch the avocados! How can I know if they're ripe enough to eat or not?
This got me thinking about coaching. If people aren't allowed to feel and experience coaching dialogue, how can they know its impact on their work and life? Even if they know, there's another layer of magical chemistry that can create a valuable coaching relationship.
The owner of the fruit shop offered to help me press the avocados, but I wasn't about to let someone else choose my perfect avocado. So I decided to go to other shops to buy them instead.
When it comes to bespoke coaching services, they can be difficult to describe or visualize. People may not be willing to spend money on consulting coaches, but they'll definitely invest in "controllable experiences" like vacations. Coaching is an "uncontrollable experience," and its effects vary from coach to coach and from client to client. Just like how I choose avocados, I judge their deliciousness and edibility based on their softness, color, and size.
Hey, it's your friendly neighborhood avocado here, and I believe that people need to explore and have a discovery pre-call in the coaching relationship to see if magical chemistry can occur. Then, you can judge and audition each other to lay a solid foundation for future services.
In conclusion, coaches need to provide a personalized coaching experience that allows clients to feel and experience coaching dialogue. By doing so, they can create a win-win coaching relationship that adds value to both parties. So go ahead, take a chance on that perfect avocado or that perfect coach, and experience the magic for yourself.
我在市场上，试图买鳄梨。像往常一样，我用手指按压它们来感受它们的成熟度。软的可以在五天内食用，超软的可以在两天内食用，硬的需要两周以上才能成熟。但这家水果店的老板不让我碰鳄梨！我怎么知道它们是否成熟了呢？
这让我想到了教练。如果人们不能感受和经历教练对话，他们怎么知道它对他们的工作和生活有什么影响？即使他们知道，还有另一层魔法化学反应可以创造有价值的教练关系。
水果店老板提供帮助我按压鳄梨，但我不想让别人选择我的完美鳄梨。所以我决定去其他店买。
当涉及定制的教练服务时，它们很难描述或可视化。人们可能不愿意花钱请教练进行咨询，但他们肯定会投资于“可控制的经历”，比如度假。教练是一种“无法控制的经历”，其效果因教练和客户而异。就像我选择鳄梨一样，我会根据它们的软度、颜色和大小来判断它们的美味和可食用性。
嘿，我是你们友好的邻居鳄梨，在教练关系中，我相信人们需要探索和进行发现前置呼叫，看看是否可以发生魔法化学反应。然后，你们可以互相评判和试镜，为未来的服务打下坚实的基础。
总之，教练需要提供个性化的教练体验，让客户感受和经历教练对话。通过这样做，他们可以创建一个双赢的教练关系，为双方增加价值。所以，去尝试那个完美的鳄梨或完美的教练，亲身体验魔力吧。
Love. David
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