Sense Of Abundance 丰盛感
This week, I volunteered as a judge at a sports event for people with moderate to severe intellectual disabilities. It was a weekday, with scorching heat and a temperature of 34 degrees Celsius, but the athletes had no complaints and gave it their all. My job was to catch the first-place finisher in the 100-meter dash and take them to the registration area, although my skin peeled partially from the sunburn. It was my first time being in such close contact with them for 9 hours, and I had several special experiences:
They were full of competitiveness. Whether they lost their shoes or fell to the ground, they still stood up, stood up and stood up to complete the race.
i learned that they needed a tangible and wider range of psychological safety.
Most of them smiled brightly and enjoyed themselves.
They didn't have the tense facial expression of most city people. Everything was natural and from the heart.
The sports event was like a well-made movie, full of drama, but it was real.
The applause for the athlete who finished last was louder than for the first-place finisher.
I have 200% respect to their parents who ran with them to the finish line.
Putting aside my work, experiencing how to build a different range of psychological safety, feeling the relaxed and carefree smiles of non-city people, and fragmented and dramatic and authentic movie scenes all filled a "curiosity hole" in my inner self. To this day, I still feel a sense of "abundance" in myself.
With this feeling, I will move on to the next stop.
这周我做了一天的义工,担任中度及重度智障人士运动会的裁判员。尽管天气酷热,摄氏34度的高温,但运动员没有任何怨言,全力以赴参加比赛。我的工作是抓住100米短跑的第一名选手,并带他们去场边登记,尽管我的皮肤在高温下部分剥落。这是我第一次与他们近距离的九小时接触,我有几个非常特别的经历:
他们充满了争胜心。无论是跑丢鞋子还是摔倒在地,都拼尽全力站起来,再站起来去完成赛事。
他们需要更广泛和更贴身的心理安全范围,学到了。
大部分运动员都面带笑容,并能从中获得乐趣。
他们没有大部分城市人的紧张面容,所有一切都是直接发自内心的欢乐。
运动会就像一部精心制作的电影,充满戏剧性,但却是真实的。
最后跑到终点的选手所获得的掌声比第一名多。
我对陪伴他们一同跑到终点的父母表示百分之二白的敬意。
放下工作,体验了如何建立不一样的心理安全范围、感受到了非城市人的无拘束笑容以及零散的电影戏剧片段,填补了我内在的“好奇洞”。直到今天,我仍然觉得自己变得更加充实。
带着这份感受,我会继续前行。
Love. David
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