Are You Someone Else's SPAM? 您是别人的垃圾邮件吗？
Recently, a friend told me that my blog and inspirational emails had ended up in their junk email folder. Sometimes, despite our efforts, our hard work can go unnoticed and end up in the trash. People have multiple filtering systems that filter out the efforts you make. Have you ever noticed that the harder you try, the more you get filtered out? How should we handle this?
Firstly, what is an Email Service Provider (ESP) Junk Email Filter? It can prevent subscribers from receiving inappropriate and low-quality emails. If the content of the junk email violates some rules, such as having too many links, not recognizing the recipient, having a lot of sales language, being blacklisted by many people, or not having an unsubscribe mechanism.
I once read an article titled "How to Stop Emails From Going to Spam in Gmail?" Many times, it's because the email you sent made some mistakes, which caused it to be filtered out. If we look at this from a metaphorical perspective, you have turned on someone else's filtering system. So, what did you do exactly?
You are already on someone else's blacklist but still wandering around in the fog.
Don't use a sales tone that makes people feel like you have an agenda.
When you speak, the other person loses interest because you ramble on and don't show curiosity about them.
You don't get to know the other person first, but only talk about yourself.
Your questions are difficult to answer and difficult to lead to action.
At this point, it's time to reverse your thinking. If you do a little less of each of the above, see how your life changes.
不久前，一位朋友告诉我说，我的博客和灵感电邮不小心被认为是垃圾邮件。有时候，我们的努力会默默地掉进垃圾箱，而我们却毫不知情。人们拥有多重过滤系统，会过滤掉我们所做的努力。您是否发现，您越是努力，就越被别人过滤了呢？那么，我们应该怎么处理这个问题呢？
首先，什么是垃圾邮件过滤器（ESP）呢？它可以阻止订阅者收到不适当和低质量的电子邮件。如果邮件内容违反了一些规则，比如有过多的链接、不认识对方、充斥着销售性语言、曾被多人列入黑名单，或者没有退订机制等，就可能被认为是垃圾邮件了。
我曾经读过一篇关于《如何阻止电子邮件在 Gmail 中掉进垃圾邮件》的文章，其中提到，很多时候邮件被认为是垃圾邮件，是因为发件人在邮件中犯了一些错误。从一个比喻的角度来看，其实是你开启了别人的过滤系统。那么，究竟您做了什么呢？
您已经被列入了别人的黑名单，但仍然在浑浑噩噩中。
不要用销售口吻，让人感觉您的话语充满目的。
您说话的时候，别人就会失去兴趣，因为您唠叨不到重点，对别人也没有好奇心。
您没有先了解对方，而只是谈论自己。
您的问题让别人难以回答，也难以引导他们采取行动。
现在，让我们逆转思维。只要在以上方面少做一点，看看您的人生会有什么不同吧！
LOVE. DAVID
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